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In my previous blog, I talked about how acting on something is more important than focusing only on success. But there’s a constant thought that the journey of “just trying” can sometimes feel like moving towards mediocrity. Is that really the case? I would disagree and believe that —mediocrity stems not from trying, but from a lack of intent or genuine interest.

The Spark of Interest

When we try something, it’s often curiosity that gets us started. Over time, it leads into a deep interest. Take singing, for example—something I love doing. I don’t sing to perform on a stage or become a playback singer; I sing because it brings me joy. The process of exploring new techniques and challenging myself is rewarding in itself.

For me, the act of singing isn’t about external validation—it’s about the fulfilment I feel every time I do so. It is done purely out of joy and contentment.

The Role of Intent

Intent plays a crucial role in how we approach any effort. Are we doing something just to check it off a list, or are we doing it with a sense of purpose? Purpose adds direction to our actions. Every small milestone feels like an accomplishment. Over time, those small milestones shape us into better personalities.

Being consistent in our action builds identity. Going back to my singing example: practicing every day and gradually learning more about music helps shape the identity of a singer—not because of achievements, but because of the effort and growth involved.

Redefining Success

The idea that “just trying” leads to mediocrity is often a reflection of our cultural conditioning. We’re taught to measure everything in results. In school, it was exam scores; in sports, it was medals; in reading, it was how much knowledge we gained. Effort, rarely gets the recognition it deserves.

But I truly believe that consistent effort almost always leads to progress, and this progress eventually brings results. The difference is, when you’re not chasing a deadline or a specific outcome, the journey itself becomes more enjoyable. It turns out that our experience along the way matters more.

More than settling for less—trying is about showing up for what matters to you. It’s about growth, improvement, and creating something meaningful.