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FRIENDS — the iconic American sitcom — is easily one of my all-time favorite shows. Even in 2025, it’s still one of the most-watched shows out there, and for good reason. I first watched it in college, thanks to a friend, and since then, I’ve gone back to it many times. It’s been my go-to comfort watch — whether I was feeling low or just needed something light to lift my mood. Honestly, I don’t think there’s ever a “right” or “wrong” time to watch FRIENDS.

I recently started rewatching it again, and this time, I found myself paying more attention to the little things — the characters, their quirks, their journeys. While the show is mostly known for its humor, I realized there are a few quiet life lessons tucked in between all the jokes. Thought I’d share some of them here — just things that stood out to me.

Relationships take work

Whether it’s friends, family, or a partner, every relationship needs effort. Being there for each other, cheering one another on, supporting each other during the not-so-great days — that’s what keeps relationships strong. Like how Chandler always had Joey’s back, or how Monica and Chandler’s relationship grew over time. Even Ross and Rachel, with all their drama, showed that both people need to try if they want things to work.

Life doesn’t have to be perfect

There’s always this idea of a “perfect” life — the ideal job, relationship, timeline… and sometimes we get caught up trying to chase that. But FRIENDS shows that everyone’s journey is different. Some of them had stable careers early on, some figured things out later. Monica and Chandler found a steady relationship, while Ross and Rachel were… well, a bit all over the place. Phoebe found her version of family later in life. Joey’s career took time. But all of them had something beautiful in their own way. That’s what mattered.

Kindness matters

No matter what was going on, they were kind to each other. Ross showed up for Rachel even when things were complicated. Monica was always the one pulling the group together. Joey had such a big heart — always ready to help. These little acts of kindness made the friendships feel real. It’s easy to forget sometimes, but being kind — even in small ways — makes a big difference.

It’s never too late

Want to switch careers? Learn something new? Go after something you’ve always wanted to do? FRIENDS reminds us it’s never too late. Chandler left his well-paying job in his 30s to try something completely different — and it worked out. Sure, it’s scary, but trying is always better than spending your life wondering “what if.”

People evolve — and that’s okay

This one’s my favorite. Watching the characters grow over time was actually pretty inspiring. Rachel started out completely dependent on her parents and ended up building a career and life on her own. Chandler, who was terrified of commitment, eventually became a loving partner and parent. It made me think — we’re all constantly changing, and that’s not a bad thing. Growth takes time, and it usually happens when we’re surrounded by the right people.

I think that’s what I love most about FRIENDS. It’s hilarious, yes — but it also quietly reminds us of a few things about life, without trying too hard. Maybe that’s why I keep going back to it.